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Are His Fetishes Interfering with a Real Sex Life?

Jan 24, 2015 1 Comment by

Author: Dear Papabear, I’ve been a long time lurker of this site, and I’m very glad that there is an advice column specifically for Furries. It’s difficult explaining certain problems to people who are not part of the fandom, so I am very grateful My question is a sexuality issue. But before we get to […]

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At Age 13, Please Take More Time to Be a Kid and Save Worrying about Sexuality for Another Day

Jan 22, 2015 1 Comment by

Author: Hey Papabear! You might remember me from a bit back (about a month or so). And thanks for your help, I made like 3 furiends!!!! So my question now is this: I am bisexual, and on my gay side I like furry. I need to tell my parents this, but they are very, very […]

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He Finds No Joy in Life

Jan 20, 2015 1 Comment

Author: Hello, Papabear. Thanks for reading my letter, I think the work you do with this website is really amazing. So here’s the thing: I been feeling bad or nothing at all, I don’t get excited about anything anymore. I don’t want to do anything, so I do nothing all day. I have books I wanted […]

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If It’s Love, You Can Get Past the 8-Year Age Difference

Jan 18, 2015 1 Comment

Author: Papabear, I’m a young gay male in quite the predicament. I’ve always had an affinity for older men, I have to admit that, but normally it’s just surface level. However, I’ve met this guy online that I met up recently and we connected on an unexpected level.I will admit that I first just assumed […]

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Will Keeping His Trashed Fursona Identity Harm His Future in the Fandom?

Jan 16, 2015 1 Comment

Author: *Warning, this will contain a lot of rambling and scatterbrained…ness. If I had figured out the proper way to say/type it, I might have figured it out already* Hi! Well this is interesting, I’m asking a question on the same day I found your blog! (Is that the right word? I don’t know. ;w; […]

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He Has Three Things to “Come Out” About: Furry, Therian, Asexual

Jan 14, 2015 2 Comments

Author: Hi Papabear, First and foremost, I’d like to say that I hope you had good holidays and to thank you for your amazing work with this column. Now, to my situation. In addition to being a furry, I’m also a therian. And while I’m pretty comfortable with that fact myself (except for a bit […]

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Cat Is Out of the Bag about His Being a Furry … Now What?

Jan 12, 2015 2 Comments

Author: Hello Papabear, I’m going to start off by saying that I appreciate what you do. When I go to Yahoo! answers I mainly get trolls. Anyways, I’ve been involved with the fandom since 2010, but I refuse to publically identify as a furry because my friends and family aren’t the most open-minded people. But […]

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She Needs Ideas to Raise Money for a School Drama Program Trip to NYC

Jan 10, 2015 1 Comment

Author: Hi PapaBear! I’m trying to raise money for a music/drama class trip to the NYC.  Here’s the Letter. December 2, 2014 Dear Papabear, Coming this spring, April 2015, there is an opportunity for students involved in the Briggsdale High School Drama program to attend the Broadway Student Summit workshops in New York, New York. […]

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She’s the Scapegoat in an Unhealthy Family

Jan 08, 2015 2 Comments

Author: (Note: Papabear received this letter before Christmas and replied to in private before writing the full article you see below. This letter is dedicated to those of you who may not have had the most pleasant of family experiences during the holidays. Family life can be tough, but if you believe in yourself and […]

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Her Husband’s Fapping to Porn Is Having a Bad Effect on Their Love Life

Jan 06, 2015 1 Comment

Author: [Papabear notes: The letter below contains a lot of mature talk about sex play and is not suitable for readers under 18 years of age.] Hi Papabear,  My problem has to do with my husband. We haven’t been married for long—only a couple months now—but ever since I started dating him he has had […]

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Don’t Wait Around to See If Mom Has Had a Stroke … Get Help Now!

Jan 04, 2015 1 Comment

Author: Hey Papa, I’m not coming to you as a furry, but as a human being. I’m worried about my mother. She is 50 and her health is getting increasingly worse. She has trouble breathing, her speech is slurred most of the time, she is morbidly obese and can hardly walk because of her weight […]

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Furry Wants Revenge for MFF Incident … and a 2014 Message from Papabear

Jan 02, 2015 2 Comments

Author: Dear Papabear, How have you been? Merry Christmas! I come to you with a question about an incident which has shocked me quite a lot. As you are probably already aware, this year’s MFF convention suffered what many consider to be a ‘terrorist attack’. Someone unleashed chlorine gas which caused the evacuation of the […]

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He Needs to Untie the Complicated Dating Web He’s Created

Dec 31, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Dear Papabear,  I just want to say in advance thank you for taking the time to read this. And now on to the question!  I’ve been having a very emotional time in my dating life right now: my feelings for an ex coming back, new people all in my life. And I have a […]

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Sex in the Marriage Should Be 50/50

Dec 29, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hi Papabear!  Okay, be prepared to read a wild tale. I am a female Brony (or Pegasister, if you rather) who married a furry 6 months ago. I appreciated the furry culture before, and since I met my furry mate, I have been trying to create roleplays and the like that I think he […]

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