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She Has a Great Boyfriend but Still Has the Urge to Explore Sex with Women

Sep 30, 2014 1 Comment by

Author: Dear Papabear, I have recently found myself in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years, as I have moved to attend college in another country.  Sometime before we started dating, I had been dating a girl for 2 months and felt very strongly sexually attracted towards women. I had a massive […]

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He Found Out the Guy He Likes Tried to Have a Threesome with Other People

Sep 28, 2014 1 Comment by

Author: Hey Papabear, it’s me again! :3  Well… as you may remember, I have this friend that I like… but he… well… I’m starting to think he only likes how I treat him in sexual acts… and well… I was chatting with a female friend of mine (I feel that saying a girl friend… sounds […]

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Negative Reputation of the Fandom Makes Her Hesitant to Attend a Furcon

Sep 26, 2014 2 Comments

Author: Dear Papa Bear, I’m a relatively new hat in the furry fandom by which I guess I mean to say I still find it odd to be a furry. I sort of joined the fandom because a friend of mine joined. Ever since joining I haven’t really had any desire to wear fursuits. I […]

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His Family Says He Fakes Being Bipolar

Sep 24, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hello,  My name is Ross Smith and unfortunately I suffer from bipolar disorder. I’ve found every day it gets harder and harder for me to cope; at some points they lead to serious panic attacks that I can’t control. What do you think I should do cause my parents say I fake it and […]

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After Taking Care of His Sick Mother for Eight Years, He Needs to Let Himself Live Again

Sep 22, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hey there big guy. How’s you?  Well, I figured that I should finally tighten up my belt and finally ask you for some advice. I guess to give a brief description of the present situation. My mom has been extremely sick now for about 8 years, I have graduated from college this year and […]

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Porn Addiction Has a Negative Impact on Real Sex Life

Sep 20, 2014 1 Comment

Author: (Note to readers: this letter is pretty racy—a là Dr. Ruth Westheimer–and I would not advise younger readers to continue) Dear Papabear, How can I get a grip on my sexuality? Since I was a teenager, I have been looking at porn to let out my sexual frustrations. While I have heard about studies […]

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She Feels Rejected Because of Her Disability and Her Appearance

Sep 18, 2014 2 Comments

Author: Hi Papabear, I’ve written you before, regarding my inability to make friends. Don’t worry I won’t pester you with that again. I’ve accepted that it isn’t going to work out. Anyway, my apologies for pestering you again, I just was wondering if you had any advice on contending with rejection. It’s just, I’ve been […]

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He Feels His Mental Health Issues Are Keeping Him from Living a Good Life

Sep 16, 2014 1 Comment

Author: First off… I love what you do, helping others. Keep doing what you’re doing and I’ll keep reading. Now, to the real reason I’m typing this up. Asking for help. There are so many things wrong with me right now I can’t even begin to pick just one. Let’s see… Father hung himself a […]

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His Sexuality Is Making Life Tumultuous for Him … but There Is a Path to Peace

Sep 12, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hi There, Papabear.  Just to give you an overview: Bi: married a girl -> had kids -> Divorced -> now with a guy = omg! I heard you help people, well I could sure use some to put it mildly. You might wanna buckle your seatbelt for this one.  I’m in a new relationship. […]

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She Could Resolve His Need for Online Role Playing by Indulging His Fantasies in Real Life (Followed by a Reversal)

Sep 10, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hello Papa Bear, I have a problem I’m not sure if it is common or not. I’ve been with my significant other for almost two years, and we live together. But, I get nervous with them contacting other people and making friends, and my biggest worry is online role playing. Both he and I […]

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Bi Furry from Mexico Likes a Guy Who Is Afraid of His Own Sexuality

Sep 08, 2014 2 Comments

Author: Hey Papabear… er… well first of all, I’m bi, and I have this friend let’s call him E one day in a gathering with some friends after he came back from a trip I gave him oral sex … more than once (I’m trying not to be detailed, I promise) and we’ve done it […]

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His Depressed Mate Won’t Seek Help

Sep 06, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Papabear, So my boyfriend and I have been together for a whole year now and we’ve gone through a lot of hard situations but now we’re stuck. I’m living with him and his parents. The issue is, he doesn’t have a job. He lost his job in December of last year and I’ve been […]

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He Needs to Try Again before Giving Up on This Relationship

Sep 04, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Hey Papa Bear, Nice someone gives advices for people who are stuck in their situations. Sorry about my English; it was better some years ago. I was searching the web and was directed to your site. So I thought: Give it a try! ^^ Well here is the situation: There was a girl, I […]

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Spiritual Furry Feels Alienated at His Local Furmeet

Sep 02, 2014 1 Comment

Author: Dear Papabear, I’ve been feeling a little disenfranchised with the Furry Community of late.  I have long defended it, stating that the stereotypes aren’t the majority. But recently I summoned up some guts to go to a local furmeet and each of the individuals there were so bizarre, so maladjusted, so stereotype-encompassing that I […]

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